Approach, Attitude

Your strong sense of identification and empathy with others can make you feel closer to them than they feel toward you, so allow their own defenses to have some space. Your extreme willingness to help makes you a fine partner but an easy mark, so careful!

Key Quality

You are sensitive, sympathetic, and easily take on the needs and hurts of others, sometimes to the exclusion of your own. You are able to adapt well to emotional situations as long as you do not let them overwhelm you or put yourself under another's control.

Key Activity

You have a very direct approach toward others and can engage them easily, making you a good sales person or front for an organization. Nevertheless, you are very much your own person and will not likely promote something in which you disbelieve.

Chapter Highlights

Your personality may not seem to directly suggest the reputation you would like to achieve, so you may have to call on others to do the public relations necessary to get it where you want it. In any case, you should avoid being your own P.R. person.

You have a good innate sense of judgment and timing in how and with whom you express your feelings. By being in touch with yourself you can also help stabilize others and be a welcome shoulder to lean on, an advisor by example as well as word.

A good sense of originality in developing a relationship will tend to keep things interesting for both you and a partner without pushing things too far or going over the deep end. When things get boring, you can count on a flash of inspiration.

Quick confidence and a certain personal immediacy are the first qualities to be noticed by others, which can put you at the center of attention when you so desire. Justtake care to give each person you deal with full space for mutual communication.

You have a good solid feeling of the overall permissible pace of a relationship, how far and how fast to go so as not to hit stumbling blocks from haste. The long-term affair is your best and will bring you and your partner the greatest rewards also.

You have a nice easy, broad sense of personal pacing that allows you to cover a lot of ground without appearing to, with large, relaxed sweeps. You will be able to gently open up more introverted types and broaden their world, open their hearts.